Finding the person you’d want to spend the rest of your life with can be a daunting task. How do you tell Mr. or Ms. Right apart from Mr. or Ms. Right-Now? Here are some tips and tricks to weed out the people of a moment from the person you could spend the rest of your life with:
Reflect on your past.
When it comes to making a future relationship work, it is important to know why your previous relationships did not work out. Think about your past relationships –but don’t get hung up on them! Remember, to be ready for anything with the right person for you, you have to let the wrong ones go. Think about what worked, what didn’t, why that was the case, and then leave those relationships in the past where they belong. There is someone better waiting for you out there, but you’ll never find them if you are weighed down with baggage and “what ifs” from your previous relationships.
Throw out your checklist.
Having a checklist will never work out in your favor. No one will be able to meet all of the things on your list and, in reality, you probably wouldn’t want them to. Your list likely reflects a 2-dimensional person and no human is meant to be boiled down to that. Embrace the possibilities, the combination of traits you could have never imagined and you’ll find that you discover someone even better than what you were initially looking for.
When you meet this person, it just “feels right.”
This is pretty self-explanatory…just kidding! This is a hard one to understand on paper but you’ll know it when you see it in the wild. Relationships are not easy, especially when the two of you have gotten to the point where your lives are very intertwined, but a sign of being in the right relationship is being with someone where things come naturally. When you first start dating, things just feel right. You don’t have to work hard at your relationship right away. You are falling and swooning and smiling your way to the first lover’s quarrel that really marks when things get serious. You realize that life won’t always be peachy perfect and rosy with them, but you would rather have a fight or few with them then you would dozing your life away with someone else. All relationships require a little bit of work, but if you are “working” on a relationship with the right person, it feels a lot less like work and more like building a future together.
Love does not happen over night. Love sneaks up on you, showing up when you least expect it. However, it does not just fall into your lap. What this means when it comes to finding the right person for you: You don’t need to be actively looking for love to find it, but you do need to be seizing opportunities. Better yourself, try new things, go on a date with someone who’s “not your type,” try a blind date, do something you’ve always wanted to do –just get out there and do something! Being patient does not mean sitting around and waiting. Do whatever it is that you do, be the best version of yourself, and things will fall into place when the time is right.
Don’t let them go.
While it is natural to have doubts on occasion, especially in this day and age, don’t be one of those people who is so caught up on all of the other options and possibilities that you miss the person that is right for you in the long run. When you find the person you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with, do not let them go.
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